If you look closely then I would say that change is massive
And to be honest it's a little heartbreaking
Let me take u back in 30 or 40 years
In most homes the oldest person was automatically the head of the family
Not officially but in everyday life
If grandfather said something that was final
Not out of fear but out of pure respect because People valued their experience
For any big decision like:- a marriage,
a property matter,
a family dispute
you went to the elder of the house because They were the life guide of the whole family
It is a fact that
Joint families made sure that old age was never lonely
Even if the house was small and money was tight then there were always grandchildren playing around, someone to talk to in the kitchen, someone to sit with in the evening
It's a fact that
Senior citizens had a role
Because
They were needed
They were the ones who were holding the family together,
telling stories,
passing on value
But I am saying with true emotions that
Now everything has changed
Because
We moved from joint families to nuclear families
From big courtyards to small flats
From having time to always being in a hurry
And in that hurry we left our elders behind
Today society often doesn't see a 70-year-old person as wise
Because
It sees them as a responsibility
As slow
As someone who doesn't understand the modern world
People may not say it on the face but you can feel it in their behavior
A simple line which I usually listen for senior citizens that is like
"You won't understand this"
It is enough to make an elderly person feel small in his own house
I see it around me all the time
A retired father sitting alone the whole day in front of the TV because his son and daughter-in-law are at work and kids are at school
He has a lifetime of stories to share but no one has the time to listen
Earlier loneliness in old age was rare
But Now it has become almost normal
Work life has changed too
Because
Once you cross 55 or 60 then society starts treating you like you are done
no matter how healthy or sharp you are
Technology has made the gap even wider
Because A 5-year-old can operate a smartphone but a 75-year-old struggles with a video call
And instead of teaching him patiently we get irritated or we laugh
That little irritation breaks his confidence completely
But it's not all negative
Because One good thing is that people have started talking about it openly now
I was reading this thread where people from different generations shared how being old feels today as compared to earlier times
In the case of loneliness,
the health costs
but also the new independence
It gives a very real picture
And I can say from my best of the experience that today's seniors are also changing
They are not just sitting and accepting loneliness
Because
Many are joining morning clubs,
yoga groups,
senior citizen travel groups
They are learning to use phones,
they are trying to live for themselves after 60
That spirit is new and I really admire it
As I always write in Articles and speak in my speeches that senior citizens don't just need money or medicine
They need emotional care, respect and a feeling of being wanted
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At the end of the day the question is not just about society because It's about us
We became more practical,
more career-oriented, more busy
And in that race we forgot that those wrinkled hands once fed us
those tired legs once ran around to fulfill our wishes
Always remember my words that
Respect is not just touching feet on festivals
Because Respect is sitting with them for ten minutes every day without checking your phone
Asking them how their day was
Listening to the same old story for the fifth time and still laughing
Because old age is not someone else's story
If we are lucky enough then one day it will be our own story too
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