if you are going to become a caregiver for your elderly parents, first of all I appreciate you┬а
And I want to introduce myself
I am Dr. Rajesh Mehta (MBA, MSW, Therapist┬а
Sevak for Senior Citizen)
I have been serving senior citizens without charging for many years and I have seen many children who start with full love but they become tired and angry after some months because no one told them the truth before
So let me tell you very honestly what you should know before becoming a caregiver?
First caregiving is not just medicine because it is full-time emotional duty
┬аYour parents will not only need tablets they will need your time, your listening, your patience
It is a fact that At 70 plus, they become like small children
It also is true that They will ask the same question again and again
They will forget things
┬аThey will become angry without reason
That is why
┬аYou should know that this is not their fault because it is an age effect
┬аYou need big patience
Second you should know about their health in detail
Before starting make one file
Write their BP, sugar, heart problem, knee pain which doctor they visit, which medicine they take morning and evening
Keep all reports in one folder
Learn simple home care like how to check BP machine, how to give acupressure for knee pain and for good sleep
I teach all these natural points on the official website
┬аhttps://www.seniorcitizentherapy.site┬а
no side effect free to learn
Third you should know about finance
If I talk about fact then it is true that
Many children do not talk about money with parents and later they fight
That's why I advise you Sit with your parents lovingly
Know where their pension account is,
┬аwhere is their SCSS post office account,
┬аwhere is Aadhaar, where is Ayushman card
Keep a list
Also protect them from phone scams
Because I am telling u from my best of the experience that
I have seen elders lose 2-3 lakh in one OTP fraud
That's why Teach them one golden rule┬а
"never share OTP and never click an unknown link, they should Call you first"
Fourth you should know you will get tired and that is okay
It is true that
┬аCaregiving is very tiring
You will have less sleep, less social life
┬аYou will feel guilty sometimes
This is called caregiver burnout
┬аSo according to me you should make a small team
┬а
Like:-
┬аOne brother will see medicine,
┬аone sister will see food,┬а
one day in week you take rest
As well as┬а
┬аTake help from neighbour or from a trusted person
Always remember my one thing that
┬аYou cannot do everything alone for 24 hours
Fifth you should know about love and respect
Because
Your parents do not want big money as they want your 20 minutes daily without mobile
Sit with them,┬а
ask about their childhood,┬а
ask "Baba, how did you get your first job?"
┬аWhen you listen then their loneliness goes away
This listening is best medicine for depression at old age
That's the reason
┬аI have explained daily health sutras for calm mind here┬а
┬аhttps://share.google/C10HuHmKMCUcm1wcV
Last you should know about government help
You are not alone
Because Government gives Old Age Samman Allowance 3200 per month in Haryana, Ayushman Bharat 5 lakh free treatment for 70 plus, free ration, senior citizen card
And it is a fact that
I help as a free personal assistant to senior citizens to get these forms done
If you know these 5 things before becoming a caregiver then your journey will be peaceful
Caregiving is not burden
Because
it is blessing
I want to suggest u something that
Your parents gave you life when you were small now you give them dignity when they are old
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